What Is Succes In Life And How To Achieve It?

Everyone has a different definition to what is success in life. To some, success in life would mean to have great mansions and luxurious cars to decorate the house porch and credit cards to accompany the shopping trips. Whereas others would think that success in life is when you are able to scram out of your parents' lounging and stand on your own two feet. If you ask a 16-year-old kid what is success in life then she will say it is when she is accepted into college. Everyone has a different success pictures painted in front of them. But despite all these different views, all of this success in life can be attained y using the very same technique.
Success in life does not come easily. If you think that you are not up to the challenge, then there are possibilities that you are going to struggle with accomplish your goals. Talking about goals, you probably heard of goal setting back then in the olden days when you were just in junior high. It might seem kind of ridiculous to you to adhere to this junior high method of meeting up with you goals, but did you know that this method is recognized as one of the most effective methods to achieve success in life?
Instead of letting your goals and aims linger around your mind, set them straight and set them right, just by using the primitive tools of paper and paper. Doesn't seem too tough to puff does it?
By why is it that by scribbling down your goals and aim will make you be successful. I mean it's just paper and pen after all. This is where people go wrong. Other than the obvious reason, did you know that by jotting your goals down onto paper allows your mind to work hand in hand with you towards the goal? While you might not read it word for word every day, you subconscious mind will tell you that there are goals to complete and hence subconsciously you will work towards the goal. Don't ever doubt the power of the mind. With just a tweak of the mind, you are able to move mountains. That is also the reason why people are using self-hypnosis techniques to help them to reprogram the mind to help them to work towards to goals faster. However, do not mistake it as a technique used to fool the mind for the selfish purpose of achieving your goals. By using self-hypnosis, it means that you are able keep your focus and attention towards a goal and hence giving you the extra push to keep you moving towards your goal.

There are D-I-Y self-hypnosis books available off the shelves. So you might want to refer to them to learn more about the hypnosis techniques that you can use to keep yourself always on the roll for some yummy goals. Alternatively, there is self-hypnosis Success CDs that are meant to reprogram your mind with positive affirmations that will help you to acquire the right kind of attitude to help you work your way to success. It seems ridiculously easy doesn't it? But of course to top it all up, you will need your discipline and determination to achieve the things you want in life. Remember, these Success CDs are there just to give you the extra push. It is still up to you to determine how successful you will be.
Looking at my life, there are many life lessons I’ve learned. Some of them are the fruits of difficult experiences. Some others are the advice I got from wise people. They came from different sources but they all have something in common: they are all useful to guide my life into the future.
Here I’d like to share with you eight life lessons that have significantly affected my life.
Apply them and you will achieve true success in life. Here they are:
1. Be grateful
Being grateful is perhaps the most important attitude you must have to live a happy life. No matter how bad the situations around you are, you can always choose to respond positively. Being grateful makes you look at the world through positive lens and energizes your life. Don’t take things for granted.
2. Follow your heart
Nothing can replace following your heart. People may tell you about the right thing to do or what they expect from you, but at the end, it’s your life. If you don’t live your own life, who will?
So slow down and listen to your heart. What does it tell you about your career? What does it tell you about your relationships? Listen to your heart and find the courage to follow it.
3. Have a Dream big
How far you go is very much determined by how big your dream is. Having a small dream is like putting yourself inside a small box. You might end up living far below your fullest potential.
Of course, it’s not easy to dream big. Perhaps your failures in the past scare you. Perhaps you don’t think you have what it takes to achieve your dream. But don’t let negativity push you down. Be dare to dream big.
If you can dream it, you can do it. Always remember that this whole thing was started with a drea.
4. Good is the worst enemy of best
When you reach a position that is good enough, you may become comfortable and think that it’s no longer worth it to continue fighting for the best. That’s why good is the worst enemy of best: it makes you stop before you achieve your fullest potential. It distracts you from pursuing your best life. Be grateful for what you have but understand that you still have a lot more in front of you.
5. Run your own race
Your race is different from other people’s races. Realizing this is liberating because it frees you from envy. When you hear that other people are successful, you can sincerely be grateful since you are not in competition with them. At the same time, it also pushes you to live your best life. Why? Because you are competing against yourself.
6. Focus on what you can control
Sometimes you might have bad experiences that you can’t do anything about. If that happened, don’t dwell on it. You are wasting a lot of mental energy if you do. Move on and focus instead on things you can control. Applying this frees you from a lot of stress and worries.
One application of this principle is on changing people. Which one do you think you can change: yourself or other people? You can’t change other people but you can change yourself. So focus on changing yourself.
7. Failure is your friend
Befriending failure makes you dare to try new things. It puts you on the path of inventions, breakthroughs, and innovations. Failure is often the price of progress.
8. Relationships are your greatest treasures
At the end, what do you want to achieve in life? Will it be meaningful to have a lot of money if you have broken relationships? Will it be meaningful to be famous if you lose love? I don’t think so. Your relationships are your greatest treasures. Understand